Lingerie that's not from Victoria's Secret

Attend any bridal shower or bachelorette party and you're sure to see at least one classic pink striped box from Victoria's Secret. Why? So many people seem to think that's the only place to buy lingerie. But allow me to let you in on the secret...there are so many more options available to you online or even in stores. I know, breaking up with Vikki might sound hard, but having gone through my own separation years ago, I realize she was really just a back-stabbing (literally, underwire poking out) trashy gal that needed an upgrade in quality. And while we're still on amicable terms (I'll pop in once in a while), these other shops have become my go-to's when shopping for gifts or for myself.

Online
While buying something so personal online may sound a little strange, it opens an incredible wealth of possibilities. Since shelf space isn't an issue, there is a wide variety of colors, sizes and styles to choose from. I like picking places that have quick shipping and easy returns to make sure I can find something I love.

BHLDN
Finding tasteful lingerie in cream or white for brides is tough. Luckily, Anthropologie's bridal brand has beautiful pieces to choose from. Their robes, stockings, and undergarments have a very feminine feel with thoughtful details to make a bride feel extra special on her big day. Anthro, itself, has some lovely pieces as well in colors when you're looking for something less traditional.

Intimissimi 
Before my bridal shower, a thoughtful friend of mine was visiting Europe and brought back lingerie as a gift from this Italian brand. The fabric is so soft and the pieces are very well-made. Knowing that it came straight from Italy makes it special too. All that, and the prices are still quite affordable!

ASOS
By far, this has become my favorite place to shop for lingerie. Their selection is incredible. You can find any size, color or style you're looking for here. And their brands include everything from Agent Provocateur and Stella McCartney to French brands like Undiz and Pour Moi. With their premier membership, you get free two-day shipping and free returns despite your purchases coming from London. If you need a no-fail solution, start here.

Brick and Mortar
If you're someone who needs to see something in person, or are in a time crunch, going in to an actual retail store may be your best option. It's especially helpful if you're looking for something that's tricky in terms of sizing or if you need a salesperson to offer advice and suggestions.

Nordstrom
Nordy's offers a large range of options for your day-to-day lingerie needs. They have incredible fitters and salespeople that help you find exactly what you need (or didn't even realize you needed). If you don't have a store nearby, their online selection is great with a return policy can't be beat.

Macy's
One great thing about this department store is that you can almost always find some kind of coupon or sale to score big time in terms of value. Their selection is slightly more limited than other stores but their variation in brands leaves several options.

Boutique Shops
Living in the Seattle area means several high-quality lingerie shops to choose from. Nancy Meyer is one of the longest-standing designer lingerie retailers in the area. They're greatest selection is online, but for locals, visiting their 5th avenue location is a must. Zovo is now open in Bellevue Square which is a great option for Eastsiders. They carry brands like Chantelle, Huit and Panache. Bellefleur is also a great option, with lots of bridal lingerie to choose from.
Be adventurous and search for lingerie shops in the area you live.

So break out of the pink box and try a few other options next time you shop for lingerie! You may find that a break up was just what you needed.